Subandi Kamis
2 min readNov 24, 2021

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The Monabandi Chronicles : NO!

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2015

The little boy in this photo – Akmal was negotiating…and being persistent about it. He was just discharged from the hospital for his asthma, and we were at a hotel for the weekend.

Akmal had wanted yet another round of chocolate cake and chocolates. I insisted he stopped because of his allergies.

This was our conversation. Parents, please compare your experience….

Akmal : Daddy, just one more.

Daddy : No…

Akmal : Please…

Daddy : No! Enough already!

Akmal : This will be the last one!

Daddy : That’s what you said the last 3 times, Akmal!

Akmal : Just a little bit!

Daddy : Which part of “No” that you don’t understand, Akmal? (giving daddies’ atypical stern look)

Akmal : But Trisha and Daniel had theirs….

Daddy : Yes, they did but not much.

Akmal : Please….just a tiny bit

Daddy : No… N.O …No!

Akmal : Daddy….please…

Daddy : WWW.NO.COM

Akmal : 404 PAGE NOT FOUND! (without missing a beat!)

Daddy : hey!………..(sighing)

In case you’re wondering, The Monabandi Chronicles is a collection of stories centered around our family, including myself (Subandi), my wife Monarita, and our children. Over the years, I have been gathering these stories, starting from when our kids were young. Within the pages, I have discovered a wealth of valuable insights and wisdom. I genuinely hope that you find enjoyment in reading them.

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Subandi Kamis

Author of Lessons of 2022 : Navigating the Brunei Work-Life Landscape.